Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Take Time...

Old English Prayer
Take time to be friendly...
It is the road to happiness.
Take time to dream...
it is hitching your wagon to a star.
Take time to love and to be loved...
It is the privilege of the gods.
Take time to look around...
It is too short a day to be selfish.
Take time to laugh...
It is the music of the soul.


under the same moon & stars,
ibs

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Pollywog & peanut butters

The kids wore me down.
and so I did it.
and I love them!
I have been trolling craigs list.
day after day 
refresh
refresh
then there he was
2 years old chihuahua
welcome to my world
5 lbs of peanut butter and jelly

sadly for the kids, peanut butters would live in my pocket if I let him
basically he tolerates the kids when I'm around, 
only if I am unavailable will he go to them
so the hunt was on 
again
hello craigs list
refresh
refresh
then,
2 years old teddy bear dog to good home.
what the heck is a teddy bear dog?
answer: the sweetest most laid back, kid loving designer mutt you will ever know
welcome to the family Paul aka pollywog, aka polly wally doodle.
they have been wonderful.
when I hear my little monkeys laughing with the pups
it makes my heart happy
and when the kiddos are at school or one of the many other activities 
the pollywog and peanuts snuggle up with me and they make me smile.

Monday, September 19, 2011

no in between

so, i'm always thinking that things are going to slow down.  after the holidays; when the kids go back to school; when ~fill in the blank~ is done I'll have time to ~fill in the blank~.  The truth is that things never really slow down.  Life only has two speeds: Go and Stop, there is no in between.  So, whatever it is
things only happen when you make time for them to happen.
Remember to take care of the important things.

under the same moon & stars,
ibs

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Analog

Just in case you don't know, I'm not the most technologically advanced gal.  Facebook is sometimes a challenge for me.  I'm still unsure on how to "plug" in a video, or vlog, or whatever it is called when you link something on some page or another.  In fact this blog is sometimes a real effort for me.  I wanna make it all pretty and swirly, and perhaps one day I will take the time to figure it all out.  The reality of my world is that I like to write with a pen and paper, when I read a book I want to hold actual paper,  I miss when video games and movies weren't all 3D; unfortunately, the reality of the World doesn't jive with mine.
So, I will try to advance my techie skills, but, the reality is I'm really not in any kind of hurry.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Star gazing- take 2

okay. so i originally posted this a life time ago & it was all wonkie, so here it is again, its

The Star-Splitter

by Robert Frost



`You know Orion always comes up sideways.
Throwing a leg up over our fence of mountains,
And rising on his hands, he looks in on me
Busy outdoors by lantern-light with something
I should have done by daylight, and indeed,
After the ground is frozen,
I should have done Before it froze, and a gust flings a handful
Of waste leaves at my smoky lantern chimney To make fun of my way of doing things,
Or else fun of Orion's having caught me. Has a man, I should like to ask, no rights
These forces are obliged to pay respect to?'
So Brad McLaughlin mingled reckless talk
Of heavenly stars with hugger-mugger farming,
Till having failed at hugger-mugger farming
He burned his house down for the fire insurance
And spent the proceeds on a telescope
To satisfy a lifelong curiosity
About our place among the infinities.
`What do you want with one of those blame things?'
I asked him well beforehand. `Don't you get one!'
`Don't call it blamed; there isn't anything
More blameless in the sense of being less
A weapon in our human fight,' he said.
`I'll have one if I sell my farm to buy it.'
There where he moved the rocks to plow the ground
And plowed between the rocks he couldn't move,
Few farms changed hands; so rather than spend years
Trying to sell his farm and then not selling,
He burned his house down for the fire insurance
And bought the telescope with what it came to.
He had been heard to say by several:
`The best thing that we're put here for's to see;
The strongest thing that's given us to see with's
A telescope. Someone in every town
Seems to me owes it to the town to keep one.
In Littleton it might as well be me.'
After such loose talk it was no surprise
When he did what he did and burned his house down.
Mean laughter went about the town that day
To let him know we weren't the least imposed on,
And he could wait---we'd see to him tomorrow.
But the first thing next morning we reflected
If one by one we counted people out
For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long
To get so we had no one left to live with.
For to be social is to be forgiving.
Our thief, the one who does our stealing from us,
We don't cut off from coming to church suppers,
But what we miss we go to him and ask for.
He promptly gives it back, that is if still
Uneaten, unworn out, or undisposed of.
It wouldn't do to be too hard on Brad
About his telescope. Beyond the age
Of being given one for Christmas gift,
He had to take the best way he knew how
To find himself in one. Well, all we said was
He took a strange thing to be roguish over.
Some sympathy was wasted on the house,
A good old-timer dating back along;
But a house isn't sentient; the house
Didn't feel anything. And if it did,
Why not regard it as a sacrifice,
And an old-fashioned sacrifice by fire,
Instead of a new-fashioned one at auction?
Out of a house and so out of a farm
At one stroke (of a match), Brad had to turn
To earn a living on the Concord railroad,
As under-ticket-agent at a station
Where his job, when he wasn't selling tickets,
Was setting out, up track and down, not plants
As on a farm, but planets, evening stars
That varied in their hue from red to green.
He got a good glass for six hundred dollars.
His new job gave him leisure for stargazing.
Often he bid me come and have a look
Up the brass barrel, velvet black inside,
At a star quaking in the other end.
I recollect a night of broken clouds
And underfoot snow melted down to ice,
And melting further in the wind to mud.
Bradford and I had out the telescope.
We spread our two legs as we spread its three,
Pointed our thoughts the way we pointed it,
And standing at our leisure till the day broke,
Said some of the best things we ever said.
That telescope was christened the Star-Splitter,
Because it didn't do a thing but split
A star in two or three, the way you split
A globule of quicksilver in your hand
With one stroke of your finger in the middle.
It's a star-splitter if there ever was one,
And ought to do some good if splitting stars
'Sa thing to be compared with splitting wood.
We've looked and looked, but after all where are we?
Do we know any better where we are,
And how it stands between the night tonight
And a man with a smoky lantern chimney?
How different from the way it ever stood?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Karma ran over my Dogma

So I try to keep my blog pretty up beat and positive.  There are too many  other places to find negativity if you want to find it.
Not today.
For the last few weeks my up beat has been beat down.  My skin is raw from being dragged over the broken glass called LIFE.  No, nothing really major happened, except maybe me breaking my fall with my face~ yes it did hurt as much as it looked like it did~ but really it's the little things that are building up to look like mount Fuji:

1~ my great neighbors moved to Italy (yea for new adventures for them)
2~ the living room TV decided to die
3~ my computer has been rebelling
4~ got a call from the camp counselor because our son decided to throw a dodge ball at a kids face (on purpose)
5~ our middle monkey dropped ice cream all over the freshly mopped floor~ not just ice cream but the little bits of flash frozen dip-n-dots that melted all over the floor in about 1.2 seconds
6~ the soccer mom mobile has been acting up
7~ summer is only half over~ that's a double edged sword right there, and I have no more summer adventure ideas left for the monkeys!
8~ and about a hundred other little things flying around like little swarms of gnats irritating the crap out of me...

 I know that this is all just part of life's dips and turns, and tomorrow I'll try to find the silver lining, the rainbow after the storm and whatever other little trite saying there is, but for today all I really want to do is check into a hotel, order room service, watch tv and lay around in my pajamas and let someone else worry about all the little things that are driving my crazy lately.

Thursday, June 30, 2011

Dear Photograph

I stumbled across this site DearPhotograph.com an I loved the idea and artistry of it.  Taking a photograph of a photograph; reliving the memories, feeling the change from then through now.  It also made me a bit sad.  I wish I had that one constant place in my life.  Part of my envies those who have.  My husbands family still live in the same house he grew up in.  His family has roots that go deep; my family, well not so much.  The pictures also made me long.  A longing for the innocence and joy the past always seems to hold.  



Check the site, it's beautiful.

under the same moon and stars,
ibs

p.s.  disclaimer: none of the photos are mine in anyway legaleeze legaleeze legaleeze....

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Do you believe in fate?


do you believe in fate? destiny?  are you pre-destined? or do you make your own destiny?  I like to believe that we have at least some say in how and where our lives end up.  No, you don't have to climb mount everest, or travel the world, unless that is where your heart is.  If living your day to day life~ laughing with your friends and family is enough, then it is enough.  Our lives change, and so do our aspirations for ourselves.  Live your life on your terms and let Fate fend for itself.  

Fate
That you are fair or wise is vain,
Or strong, or rich, or generous;
You must have also the untaught strain
That sheds beauty on the rose.
There is a melody born of melody,
Which melts the world into a sea.
Toil could never compass it,
Art its height could never hit,
It came never out of wit,
But a music music-born
Well may Jove and Juno scorn.
Thy beauty, if it lack the fire
Which drives me mad with sweet desire,
What boots it? what the soldier's mail,
Unless he conquer and prevail?
What all the goods thy pride which lift,
If thou pine for another's gift?
Alas! that one is born in blight,
Victim of perpetual slight;—
When thou lookest in his face,
Thy heart saith, Brother! go thy ways!
None shall ask thee what thou doest,
Or care a rush for what thou knowest,
Or listen when thou repliest,
Or remember where thou liest,
Or how thy supper is sodden,—
And another is born
To make the sun forgotten.
Surely he carries a talisman
Under his tongue;
Broad are his shoulders, and strong,
And his eye is scornful,
Threatening, and young.
I hold it of little matter,
Whether your jewel be of pure water,
A rose diamond or a white,—
But whether it dazzle me with light.
I care not how you are drest,
In the coarsest, or in the best,
Nor whether your name is base or brave,
Nor tor the fashion of your behavior,—
But whether you charm me,
Bid my bread feed, and my fire warm me,
And dress up nature in your favor.
One thing is forever good,
That one thing is success,—
Dear to the Eumenides,
And to all the heavenly brood.
Who bides at home, nor looks abroad,
Carries the eagles, and masters the sword.

Monday, May 16, 2011

The Magical Thinking Project #2

Magical thinkers were asked to write a manifesto; this is mine.




WHY

Because Life is SHORT and NOTHING is guaranteed.  
Because existing is NOT enough.  
Because it’s not a race to the finish.  
Because it IS about the EXPERIENCE.  
Because this will not last FOREVER.  
Because ONE life is the flap of the butterflies wings.  
Because you DON’T get another Chance. 
Because the BAD is as much a part of the story as the GOOD.  
Because living vicariously is NOT really living.  
Because we all need each other.  
Because LOVE.  
Because I AM ONE.  
Because one IS the beginning.  
Because I don’t have all the answers.  
Because of this wonderful thing called LIVING.  
Because of all of this and more I wilL BE and DO and WISH and DREAM and ACT and 
EMBRACE IT ALL.  

under the same moon and stars,
ibs

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

The Invitation

The Invitation 
by Oriah Mountain Dreamer
It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for,
And if you dare to dream of meeting
Your heart’s longing.
It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
For love, for your dream,
For the adventure of being alive.
It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon. 
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow,
If you have been opened by life’s betrayals,
Or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit with pain, 
Mine or your own,
Without moving 
To hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy,
Mine or your own,
If you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
Without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic,
or to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself,
If you can bear the accusation on betrayal and not betray your own soul.
I want to know if you can be faithless and therefore be trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty
Even when it is not pretty every day,
And if you can source your life 
From its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, 
Yours and mine,
And still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes!”
It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair,
Weary and bruised to the bone,
And do what needs to be done for the children.
It doesn’t interest me who you are, how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand 
In the center of the fire with me
And not shrink back.
It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
From the inside
When all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone
With yourself,
And if you truly like the company you keep
In the empty moments.  

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Know What I like About You?

The other day I picked up this months copy of home life. In it was the article by Marie Armenia "Know What I like about you?"  and I liked the article so much I wanted to share.  In it she talked about how her husband and she had been so busy that she realized that she hadn't said anything nice to him in a long time.  So she turns to him and says, " Know what I like about you?" He looked at her, and she finished with, "you always smell so good."  No, it wasn't anything earth shattering, just something simple and nice.  But it was something that made her husband feel good.  "Know what I like about you?" has become something, a way for them to just connect with each other.  In the crazyness of life we can use all the help we can get to connect with the people that are special in our lives; our spouse, our children, our friends.  I'm not a terrible mushy person, but I think I can handle doing this.  So, I am going to give "know what I like about you?" a try.

under the same moon and stars,
ibs

Saturday, April 2, 2011

DIY How to make a Lamp

Okay, here is a really great retro looking lamp you can make yourself.  It's so easy and you can do it for under $20!!!  I found it in a Better Homes and gardens mag DIY.
you will need
~ the inside of 2 embroidery hoops, I picked up 2 eight inch round hoops at the thrift store for 50 cents each.
~ 2 twelve inch dowels
~ 12-15 sheets of vellum, more if you're going with a larger hoop
~ light cord and socket, i picked mine up at Lowes for under $6
~ cutting mat, straight edge, ruler, glue (gorilla glue is good) , and wire






 Cut the dowels into 4 equal sticks.  I cut mine with my straight edge into 5 inches.

Glue the dowels around the inside of the hoops.

 While the dowels dry on the hoops, cut the vellum into 8 inches square.  Then cut one and  half inch slits into opposing corners starting 1 inch from the corner.  cut one slit toward the top of the square and one toward the bottom.  
Fold the vellum into a cylinder held together by the slits. TIP: you might want to try this out on a couple pieces of 8 inch square paper and make yourself a template so you don't waste your vellum. 
 Once you have all your cylinders and the dowels have dried glue the vellum around the outside of the hoops.

 Voila!  Once the cylinders have dried use some wire to hang the light socket in place and hang!  You will want to use a low watt bulb or a CFL so it doesn't get hot.
 I used a translucent vellum, but you could use any color/ pattern that matches your decor.  You could even draw some patterns on the vellum with a metallic sharpie before you glue them to the hoops.  Whatever you can think up!
Happy lamp making!!!

under the same moon and stars,
ibs

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

MIA





I've been MIA.  I know.  Please don't add to my guilt.  I've been busy.  PLAYING.  My bestest bud came up from San Antonio and we hung out.  we thrifted.  we laughed ( i think i peed a little).  we ate out (hello Greek/ Italian Castle)  we wandered.  I missed my buddy.  I wish we lived closer.  Since we don't she comes to see me and hairy nesto and our monkeys.  She's gone now, and I'm a bit sad but we are going to plan a girl getaway soon.  Sharing some pics of us playing~ and make sure you make time in your life to play!!!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Dr. Who

So I've been hooked on the British TV series Doctor Who.  My husband laughs at me; he thinks it's cheesy.  (Like he has room to talk after some of the cheese he watches.)  There was an episode about parallel worlds, what one seemingly simple decision, like turning left instead of right, can change your whole world.  The possibilities are endless.  Every day we make little "meaningless" decisions.  We never really think about the decisions we make and how they impact us.  What if the world we think is real; isn't. It blows my mind.  The infiniteness of it all; endless possibilities; the butterfly effect.  Space and time, all of it amazes me.  It also humbles me.  Look at the stars.  Doesn't it make you feel small?  And isn't it thrilling to think that you have a place among it all, even if it's just a dot? We all matter, we are all connected, we all impact one another.  Amazing.  Just amazing.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Enrico Fermi

There's two possible outcomes: if the result confirms the hypothesis, then you've made a measurment. If the result is contrary to the hypothesis, then you've made a discovery.
Enrico Fermi

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

feeling small

a musing by me

spinning like a whirling dervish
days filled from end to end with meaningless nothings
punctuated be moments of vast importance
fleeting years and sluggish days
wishing away our lives
in all the universe we are but a pin prick

under the same moon & stars,
ibs

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

What if You Slept?

lately i seem to be running around so much i've lost my motivation for creating.  between the craziness of my life and exhaustion my motivation and creativity have taken a sabbatical.   so tonight  i will go to bed early and tomorrow will be a new day and i will hunt down my motivation and creativity like a Neanderthal hunting her next meal, because for some of us, creating is like food, we need it to live or else we whither and die.  So tonight I will sleep.

under the same moon & stars,
ibs


What if you slept ?
And what if,
In your sleep
You dreamed ?
And what if,
In your dream,
You went to heaven
And there plucked
A strange and
Beautiful flower ?

And what if,
When you awoke,
You had the flower in your hand ?
Ah, what then?

Samuel Taylor Coleridge 

Friday, February 4, 2011

beautiful things

my husband calls my family Nomadic.  I guess compared to his family we are.  His parents still live in the same town, street, house he grew up in; 30 some odd years in the very same house.  My family hasn't lived in the same house for more than maybe 5 years at the most.  So, in all of our movings I am a pretty good packer, my husband not so much.  He holds on to everything; a luxury of never having to move all that stuff from one place to another.  I periodically purge.  
Recently I went through my many boxes of magazines.  I held on to a few: Real Simple, Living, Blueprint, Fresh Home and Ready Made.
I whittled the many magazines down to one wine box. The rest I tore out pages of things I enjoyed and want to get; that ended up being 4 'books'. 

ONE BOX                                                                   4 'BOOKS'
Here is just a sampling of some of my wants that make up my own "magazine books"

i want this frog doorbell cover & this cheese plate & slicer 


i love the colors in this lamp

mirror mirror on the wall....

i luv these lamps~ especially the simplicity of the bulb on the cord
the faux deer head, the pale blue I would have this whole look in my place!
this is just too sweet
i am infatuated with the reusing of the legos!
if i were a fish, i would totally live here! 

these are a few of my favorite things!

under the same moon & stars,
ibs

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

LIAR!

Okay.  Confession time.  I am a Liar.  I didn't mean to and perhaps "lier" is too strong a word.  I had a misconception about myself.  You see I am always saying how much I don't like little tchotkys around, (well I must admit again it is not the items themselves but the cleaning of).  I don't want to be cleaning little things all the time so I avoid them.  Or, at least I thought I did.  While doing some "work" on my computer (lie), I rearranged the 'things' on my desk and this is what I saw:

                                        a mini cooper model, a thrift store unicorn, a little dragon
and this, yep that's pinky & the brain along with a mini banana peel and yoda and herbie race car Mickey
my Christmas artichoke, a cup my mom gave, & cookies along with 'desk' stuff 

I rearrange my little treasures periodically and while doing so the other day I realized I lied.  I do like my knick knacks~ and that I should just admit and accept this~ so
Hello, My name is Ibuna and I love knick-knacks.  

under the same moon & stars,
ibs 

Monday, January 31, 2011

say moo!!!

okay, so i am a total dork.  i know this; i accept this.  the other day i get this link for business cards and out out curiosity i click on it. I LUV IT!!!  i know, who luvs business cards? But these are just so dang diggity!!! check it out:  us.moo.com
  under the same moon & stars,
ibs

the colors are totally FAB!!!

the possibilities for the mini cards are endlessly amazing!!!

& sticker books ROCK!!!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

$20 Art

while browsing the web recently i stumbled upon this great site for art~~ 20x200.com

i luv this!!!
and this one~

 under the same moon and stars
ibs

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

CLEAR: BRIGHT LUMINOUS, CLOUDLESS UNTROUBLED....

so the other day i was listening to KLOVE on one of my many kid commutes through out the day; and Lisa & Eric (dj's) were talking about the words they have chosen for this year.  Lisa talked about her word: CLEAR.  It stuck with me.  I came home and looked up the word.  I had never really thought about the many meanings of CLEAR and once I saw them all I knew I had to make it my word also.
THIS YEAR I WILL BE : CLEAR: BRIGHT, LUMINOUS, CLOUDLESS, UNTROUBLED, SERENE, CLEAN, PURE, TRANSPARENT, PLAIN (IN A GOOD WAY), UNMISTAKABLE, KEEN, SURE, INNOCENT, UNHAMPERED BY RESTRICTION OR LIMIATATION, UNQUALIFIED, ABSOLUTE. 


What word will you choose to be your mantra, your hum that makes you an even more phenomenal person, helps keep your mind clear and your heart full of joy and happiness?  


Under the same moon & stars


ibs





Definition of CLEAR
1
b : cloudless; specifically : less than one-tenth covered <a clear sky>
c : free from mist, haze, or dust <a clear day>
d : untroubled, serene <a clear gaze>
2
: clean, pure: as
a : free from blemishes <clear skin>
b : easily seen through : transparent <clear glass>
c : free from abnormal sounds on auscultation
3
a : easily heard <a loud and clear sound>
b : easily visible : plain <a clear signal>
c : free from obscurity or ambiguity : easily understood : unmistakable <a clear explanation>
4
a : capable of sharp discernment : keen <a clear thinker>
b : free from doubt : sure <not clear on how to proceed>
5
: free from guile or guilt : innocent <a clear conscience>
6
: unhampered by restriction or limitation: as
a : unencumbered by debts or charges <a clear estate>
b : net <a clear profit>
c : unqualified, absolute <a clear victory>
d : free from obstruction <clear passage>
e : emptied of contents or cargo
f : free from entanglement or contact <staying clear of controversy> <keep clear of the boundary>
g : bare, denuded <clear ground>
clear·ness noun